/ 1 e &idegroome. 47.1 mandothmeaftrehis affairesbyiadgementr; andLone as it isboanfif4J,foitisdif tP(91.trs.{. creet,foritreiyceth Notivbrigafere .roanother mans w:fealllone itd ónefl:feittoo.a Cog r}@. mad toaMani wne. Theremay bedotageat horn,aswell as adulceryabroad. effivrwem Remember thepattern. Chritt leaueth the Church neither in want, nor in anuom eemle wantonnctfe,hewillfupplyherintheone,andcutherIliortintheother. Thus m°'eoryu'm farreof the BountyofLone. :wer.m The second thing imitable in Chrittslone is perpetuity. TheDoftrine is, Tíe 3;nß; That thehusbands leaeto hirmifema/1becontínaedwitbffedfollneffe to theend. This . is the gloryofour Bridegroome, whereheloueth, beloaethtotbeend' :Hisgifteftohnt r andesllings aremahoutrepentaáce : Nothing ioable to ferratefrom bit Lome I:. If R031.1149 there be a fmallfault,he hides it, he remits it, he maychaften it, but he will not bRoma 8.39. çalloffforir. When isa man wearyofloue tohimfelfe? When is the head be_ come an enemy toaBlume, ifit hauea deformity ? Nay, it cloth both tend and tender it fo much the more. There is nothing hath right to theabolifhmenrof a.manslone to hiswife,but that whichmaketh her nowife, and that is, adulte- ryor death : andyet mien afterdeath there ought tobea refpeft to hermemo. ry, andafterher reparation for adultery, a loneofpity, thoughnotof delight. Reioyce withthewifeofthyyouth, let herbreajltfttitfietheeataUtimeti. Conflancyipreu,t.f ,r9 is the crowneofeuery good a ion; Indeedgood is not good,ifitbcnot perpe- tuall;andit is one ofthe qualitiesofLen,.natte allaway t. k:Cor.s3.*. Thiscondemneth the inconflaccyofmany meusaffe&ions. SenecafpeakethThe'ii. ofone,whowas fò fond,thathe tiedhiswife tohimwithhisgarter:forfoothhe couldnotendureher outofhis fight. Such violent loue is in fomein the dayes oftheir first acquaintance, that they scarcecan tell what belongs to comlines, which yet in timeloath as much, as they wereotter abundantlykind inthe be. ginning. It is the gloryofmarriage when there is botha continuance anda: growth ofloue , fo that the lullparting affeetethwith greatergriefe, then...the; firft meeting fatisfied withcontent. Hee that would furtherthis, had nec of good difcretion.It mull behisglory tops(ebymanyoffenN: band to temper him. /Proùr9.1r.' Idle from theouer quicke apprehenfionof entryoccasion ofdiftaft. His lotie mutt cotter m,yea,and labourtorecoueramultitude ofetefeels. Bitternelfe andmtPer $. violence muff benoguefts inhishoufe, andofall otherFPratbs, it were pity the Sun Ibosid goed.owseopen 'his ownewife The more tender theloue;the more ntph.4.se: hard to be lodered, when it hathreceiued a crackc. Imay fay of fuch breaches asSalonuddothofthofebetwixtBrethren, theyarea :bebonesofaPallace °;itoProu.1849 is notealiie to diffolue them. Thefethings mull be watched against, that lout maybee perpetual(. Thus much how curry Bridegroomemay learne of this grand Bridegroome, how tochufe his loue,andhow to lone his choice:In chu. Ping let religion bee the mainenquiry. In loving letthere bebounty tofupply entry want,andcon(lancy tokeepethe afte&ion strong vnto the end. Now left I should be thought to glue in(iru &ions but by halite', a wordlet me adde touchingher to whom the Bridegroome' lone mutt be thus bound. full,thus perpetuall.Outofhisduty the mayiudgeofhers. Ishe bound mimic, and (hall it be free for her,toanfwerhispodaffr &ion withnegleéì?Ifhemull be bountifull,furely themutt bedutiful(; Ifhemull net fpare tosupply her,fhee mutt not falleto obeyhim ; If his louemutt bee to her without change, her £afhion mu it bee fuch tohimas may occafionno diltallc. Hee mullinflrutt, fhremull leame; her mutt guide, thee muftfollow ; he mutt admonilh,fhca mull hearken; her n uítallowhercheerefullyoutofhisc late, themuff con. forme her retie contentedly toInsefiare. Flee mull not ftraitenher, and thee muttnot vndoehim : her muff trust her,and the mutt not deceiuehim : hemutt notbebitter, and fire muttnot be flour. Inaword , ht=flame accounther for Itis Loue, and lise mull euerefleeme himan her Fence. Here is a fweetpro. portion.Iwilhittoyou that are cfpoufedthisday, itthallbebettcrvntoyou then
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