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Reties
for
Family-
peace.
there
is
such
a
thing,
dilpleaies me,
I
but
becaufe
that
difplea
fes
me, what
do:h the
other
difpleafe me?
The other
is
as
well
'
done
as
it
was
done when
I
was
naot+
pleafed
:
I
am now
dif-
pleafed
with
thi,
one
thing, let me keep the expreilion ofmy
difpleafure
within hounds
to
the
thing that bath diipleafed
me,
let
not
nie have my gall
to
run
over, that's
a
great difeafe.that
Phyfiians
oierve
in
the body, when the
gall runs over and
do
h
not
keep
in
it's proper
place:
fowhenany
thing,
difpteafes
me, for
me
to
have
a
heart angry
and
bitter
"againít
all
things,
.
this is a
great
make
-bare
in
a
family.
Fourthly,
Let luperiorsdetire
obedience out
of love
rather
then out of
feare,and
let
inferiours
obey
rather
from love then-
from
feare,
or from necetl'ity
;
What's
the
caule
of
the
dit+ur
bance
in
familyes,but
this, the
fervanrs
they
will
never
care for
obedience, nor
children,
but meerly out
of
feare
when
they
mutt
needs,
or
out of neceibty,
they mutt do
ir,
and
therefore
they
do it,
and Governours they
carry themfelves
towards
their
Children and
fervants,as
if
they
did notregard their love
at all,
but they
regard
to
have
their
will
:
Let
my fervant
do
my
work
and
will and
there's
all
that
I
care for:Now
if
you
will
be
carryed byfuch principles
as
thefe
are
in
a
family,certainly
there will be
a
great
deal
of
ditiurbance
there,but
now when
in
a
family
theMatter or Mifiriswould
have
them
obey,and
their
care
is,
O
that
I
might
have
obedience from love, that what
they
doe, they
may do for me out
of love,
and fo
the Husband
not onely
care
to
have
his
wife
to
be
under him, but
to do
all
the
cloth
out of love,
and
not out of neceibty.
Now
it's not
a
little
will
breed
difturbance in
that family, but
there's
aboun-
dance
of
peace
there,
where
the
fuperiours
ddefire
and
en-
deavour
obedience
out of
love
rather
then
feare,
and
where
the
.inferiours doe obey and ferve
rather
from
love
to
their fuperiours
then
from necellity
,
that
they
mutt doe
it.
Fifthly,
Obferve, That
when at
any
time there
is
mot+
caufe:
to
oppofe
others
in
the
family for
any evil, be
fire
to
labour
at
that
time to
thew
mot+
love, then
above all
-times
manifeft
your
greate
t
love
unto them;,thatthey
may
be
perfwaded
that
you
469.