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SECT,

III.]

IN REGARD

OF

MEN.

48%

favour of

all

around

him.

He remembers

that

it

is

of

one

-blood

God

has

made

all

nations, and

he

is

moulded

Of

the same

dust

with his fellows,

and

he

thinks

rather

of

those essentials

of

human

nature

wherein

he lies upon

a

level

with

the

meanest

son'

of

Adam;

than of

those

acci-

dental differences

of

wit or

wealth

which have

raised him

above

some

-of

his fellows.

He

knows

that

others have

a

right

to some

degrees

of

love

and esteem

as well

as

self,,

they have some

:

pretence

to

understanding and

merit

as well as he.

If

the poor and the

ignorant

ask

,him a

question,

though it

be

an

impertinent

one,

he does

not turn short

upon them

with a

smart and

surly speech,

nor

turn,

away

with a

disdainful

silence

:

He

makes

the

child

and the

servant

love him

by

the soft

and friendly answer

he gives

even

to

their

needless queries. His behaviour to

his

inferiors

has

something

in it so

engaging,

that there

is

not

the meanest figure

of

mankind

goes from his

presence

without a pleasing

image

of

his

goodness

left upon their

minds.

When

he comes

into company

with

his

equals,

he

does

not

seize

the

dictator's

chair,

nor

affect to

shew

himself

in any

superior

forms.

He

comes to

learn

rather than

to instruct,

and nòt only

gives

others leave

to

speak

in

their turn, but

he

hears

their opinion

with

patience

and

pleasure, and

pays

due deference

to all

the appearances

of reason

in

their

discourse, though he may sometimes

happen

to

prefer

his own

sentiment.

He

is

not

fond

Of

ingrossing the talk to

himself,

nor

of

filling

up

the

hour

of

conversation

with

hearing

his own

discourse, or

speak-

ing bis

own

praises

:

He

limits

the

motions

of

his

tongue,

be

pays to

every one the rights

of

society,

and

he

enjoys

the

esteem and

love

of

all.

Humility carries

in

it

all

the

sincere

arts

of

complaisance,

and

is

the

shortest

way

to

form

and accomplish the

man

of

breeding.

But

a swelling

haughty

creature

is

a

hateful thing.

Insolence

of heart and

tongue

are forbidding qualities.

A

proud look

is

an

abomination

to

the

Lord," and

an

abhorred thing amongst

men;

Prov.

v.

17.

Such

persons

may be

feared

but

they

are

-never loved

They

may have

many cringes and compliments paid

to-

them

by

their

neighbours,

but

they have

no

room

in-

their

esteem, no

place

in

their heart

Prov.

xxiv.

9.

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