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t66

CHRISTIAN MORALITY,

&r.

[SCAM.

xxrr.

presence

of God,

and

his

holy

angels, by foolish ex-

cuses,

and

saying;

It

was

a

mistake; lest God,

being

angry and

offendedat

thy

broken

vows,

should bring

a

curse upon thee and

thy affairs."

There

is

most abun-

dant

experience

of

the

folly

and danger

of

needless

vows

in the church

of

Rome.

In

the case

of

promises made to others,

and public

solemn resolutions, be

not too frequent

in

making

of

them.

See

that

the

reason

of

things,

the providence

of

God, and

the circumstances

of

life,

seem to call you to

it

before

you engage,

that

so

you

may

better maintain

your

faithfulness,

and

turn your

words

into

deeds.

Why

should

you

make chains

to

bind yourself,

without neces-

sity or reason

?

Why should

you promise to do this,

or

to

go

thither,

in

a thoughtless or

trifling

way,

and let

your tongue put

needless bonds and fetters

on

your

hands and feet

for time

to

come

??

My

son,

if

thou

art

surety

for

a

stranger, or

if

thou make a bargain

without

discretion, or multiply

promises

without prudence, thoú

art

snared

with

the

words

of

thy

mouth.

There

are

some

persons

who

"are

very free

of their

promises upon

all

occasions,

and often indulge

this

man-

ner-

of

speaking,

I

am

resolved

to

do

such

a

thing

to-

day,

or

I

will

certainly

go

to

such

a

place

to-

Morrow,

&c."

Whereas

sometimes they

find

the

thing

impracti-

cable, sometimes

it

is

inconsistent

with

their other

du-

ties

of

life,

sometimes

it

lays

them

under great

difficul-

ties

and inconveniences

to

fulfil

such

appointments,

and

often

they forget them too, and

disappoint their

friends.

Before you tie yourselves by

your

solemn resolves and

engagements, ask

your

hearts, Is

it

possible

to be

done,

Is

it

lawful?

Is it convenient? Is it proper?

Is it

consistent

with

other

promises?

Is

the thing

which

I

would promise due

to

my

neighbour upon principles

of

honour,

virtue, gratitude,

religion

?

Is

it

necessary

at

all,

and

is

it

necessary

at

this time

?

Methinks I

would

have

no

promise

made,

but

what should

be

kept;

and

therefore

I

would set

all

these

guards

around

my

lips:

Experience

of

human

affairs

will

teach

us

the

use

of

these

prudential

rules,

if

we

cannot

learn them without

it.

A watchful

caution in

all siich

sort

of

language,

as

lays us

under

any

engagements

to

future

practices,

is

of